Menu
Health / Kids / Lifestyle

Tending My Roots

During the past few months, the COVID-19 pandemic has really wrecked havoc on us all.  It’s crazy how the absence of physical connections with family and friends can make you feel weak.  Feel anxious and lonesome.  Feel just plain sad.  This has all hit me like a ton of bricks since March, and it’s been WORK to keep positivity shining for myself and my kids.  Thankfully I’ve done a lot to strengthen my core support system this past year, and have learned some hard lessons about swallowing pride and asking for help.  

This week’s trip really reminded of how valuable a strong core is.  After much debate, we decided to make the drive to Nebraska to visit my family.  The boys and I all really needed it, and they were begging to celebrate their birthdays together as they do every year.  Getting those first hugs was truly incredible and well worth the 11 hour drive! That feeling of love and safety is indescribable.  For those of you that have a loving, supportive family, you know what I mean.  For those of you that sadly do not, I hope that you have some special people in your life that make you feel like that.  Because man, it’s really the best!  My youngest son has really struggled with the lack of social interactions.  He’s an extrovert and in lieu of positive contact with his friends he has acted out both with “poor choices” in actions as well as extreme emotional outbursts.  Our visit was the best birthday present I could have given him. What a difference a little time surrounded by nature and those you love makes! Now if I can just get him back to a decent sleep schedule.

First fish with Grandpa!

I’ve come to appreciate my family more and more over the years as I’ve had children, but this pandemic has heightened it even further. Over the years I’ve been extremely fortunate to extend my family to include some special friendships as well.  It’s reminded me that you CAN be independent and still appreciate your support system.  Love and respect don’t have conditions, they are ingrained into these key relationships.  With more time on our hands, reflection is natural and it’s given me time to take stock of my blessings. I am very fortunate that so far my family and close friends are all healthy, and I do not take this for granted any more!

This post goes out to all my incredible family and friends who have stood by me through thick and thin, who call when I’m having a tough day, who mail little gifts and who cook for me (because I do not cook, this will be covered in another post!  :).  You inspire me to be a better daughter, sister, friend and the best example I can be for Isaak & Blake.  

I encourage you, as you face days of struggle, to reach out to someone you think might need a pick me up.  Brightening someone else’s day always makes mine sparkle a little more. A text, call or picture can make a difference.  Not only will you feel better for putting a smile on someone else’s face, but making that connection will help lift your spirits.  My thankful basket is pretty full these days, so please reach out to me if you are looking for a sarcastic, funny story about something crazy my boys did or the latest kids activity I’ve tried that will likely lead to an injury soon because I’m getting too old! Live life smart, but enjoy some calculated risks …. especially for the sake of an 8 year old’s laughs.

43 Comments

  • filmi full izle
    January 17, 2021 at 11:36 pm

    Fabulous, what a web site it is! This website provides helpful information to us, keep it up. Angela Calv Coleville

    Reply
  • filmi izle
    January 18, 2021 at 5:30 pm

    Really enjoyed this article. Much thanks again. Want more. Cati Tamas Dinsmore

    Reply
  • faketaxi
    January 21, 2021 at 6:31 pm

    Hey There. I discovered your blog using msn. That is an extremely smartly written article. Arliene Fonsie Thaddus

    Reply
  • 7 kogus
    January 29, 2021 at 7:45 pm

    Hello, I enjoy reading through your article post. I like to write a little comment to support you. Micaela Bil Farlee

    Reply
  • online
    January 30, 2021 at 5:27 am

    I just could not go away your web site prior to suggesting that I really enjoyed the standard info a person provide to your guests? Is gonna be again ceaselessly in order to inspect new posts| Avril Oswell Recor

    Reply
  • dublaj
    January 30, 2021 at 7:32 am

    My family members every time say that I am killing my time here at net, except I know I am getting knowledge all the time by reading thes nice posts.| Martynne Carroll Chud

    Reply
  • 123movies
    January 30, 2021 at 5:23 pm

    whoah this blog is great i love studying your articles. Ainslie Stanleigh Amedeo

    Reply
  • watch
    January 31, 2021 at 1:21 am

    I was able to find good information from your blog posts. Sallyann Theodor Allveta

    Reply
  • watch
    January 31, 2021 at 7:11 pm

    Helpful information. Fortunate me I discovered your site unintentionally, and I am shocked why this twist of fate did not happened in advance! I bookmarked it. Rhodie Jessee Lillis

    Reply
  • 123movies
    January 31, 2021 at 7:49 pm

    I think it is a fluent sharing, I will recommend your site to my friends Brande Scottie Harmaning

    Reply
  • movie download
    February 1, 2021 at 7:56 am

    I was extremely pleased to discover this page. I want to to thank you for ones time just for this wonderful read!! I definitely appreciated every part of it and i also have you book marked to look at new stuff in your web site. Dulcie Loy Fredra

    Reply
  • direk
    February 2, 2021 at 5:26 am

    This information is invaluable. When can I find out more? Sandra Tiebold Fergus

    Reply
  • tek part
    February 4, 2021 at 11:37 am

    Awesome post. I am a normal visitor of your web site and appreciate you taking the time to maintain the excellent site. I will be a frequent visitor for a really long time. Thomasine Alejandro Idonna

    Reply
  • diziler
    February 8, 2021 at 2:41 am

    This blog is really awesome and diverting. I have found many helpful stuff out of it. I ad love to return again soon. Cheers! Tabitha Mandel Gnni

    Reply
  • diziler
    February 8, 2021 at 5:10 am

    Hello, this weekend is pleasant designed for me, as this point in time i am reading this great educational paragraph here at my residence. Shaylyn Hashim York

    Reply
  • bedava
    February 8, 2021 at 9:26 am

    I really like it when individuals come together and share views. Rennie Vasili Gill

    Reply
  • diziler
    February 9, 2021 at 6:41 am

    I think this is a real great blog post. Really thank you! Cool. Ginelle Leupold Gutow

    Reply
  • mp3
    February 9, 2021 at 12:51 pm

    I enjoy what you guys tend to be up too. This type of clever work and exposure! Joey Natale Parker

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 9, 2021 at 8:19 pm

    whoah this weblog is great i like reading your articles. Keep up the great work! You recognize, lots of persons are searching around for this information, you can aid them greatly. Pam Rickard Wolff

    Reply
  • bluray
    February 10, 2021 at 5:29 am

    Hello There. I found your blog using msn. This is an extremely well written article. I will make sure to bookmark it and come back to read more of your useful info. Thanks for the post. I will certainly return. Ranna Granny Salter

    Reply
  • altyazili
    February 10, 2021 at 6:46 am

    Hey, thanks for the article. Much thanks again. Want more. Filia Kendrick Teriann

    Reply
  • dublaj
    February 10, 2021 at 8:41 am

    You are so cool! I do not suppose I have read through anything like this before. So good to find another person with some genuine thoughts on this issue. Seriously.. thank you for starting this up. This site is something that is required on the web, someone with some originality! Sheryl Cobb Rama

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 13, 2021 at 2:14 pm

    If you want to obtain a great deal from this piece of writing then you have to apply such strategies to your won website. Hedi Adamo Cleopatre

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 13, 2021 at 3:07 pm

    Inspiring quest there. What occurred after? Take care! Annabela Andrej Staci

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 13, 2021 at 4:12 pm

    Hello there, I found your website by the use of Google at the same time as searching for a comparable subject, your website got here up, it seems good. I have bookmarked it in my google bookmarks. Renie Port Chong

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 13, 2021 at 7:59 pm

    Thanks for finally writing about > blog_title < Loved it!| Fulvia Tanner Coates

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 13, 2021 at 10:53 pm

    thank you so much! I hope they improve your work from home experience! Janenna Hayward Gustaf

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 14, 2021 at 12:07 pm

    I constantly emailed this weblog post page to all my friends, as if like to read it afterward my friends will too. Daveen Hailey Agbogla

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 14, 2021 at 1:49 pm

    Hello! This is my first visit to your blog! We are a group of volunteers and starting a new initiative in a community in the same niche. Salli Roderigo Dorie Hyacintha Kalil Ronny

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 14, 2021 at 4:50 pm

    Hello there, I discovered your website by the use of Google whilst looking for a related subject, your website got here up, it appears good. I have bookmarked it in my google bookmarks. Terra Stevy Socrates

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 15, 2021 at 5:26 am

    May I simply just say what a relief to discover an individual who truly understands what they’re discussing on the internet. You certainly realize how to bring a problem to light and make it important. A lot more people have to look at this and understand this side of the story. I was surprised you’re not more popular given that you certainly possess the gift. Sibilla Rodrigo Zucker

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 15, 2021 at 9:01 am

    Really appreciate you sharing this post. Much thanks again. Salaidh Isidor Shepard

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 15, 2021 at 12:07 pm

    I am extremely impressed with your writing skills as well as with the layout on your weblog. Is this a paid theme or did you modify it yourself? Anyway keep up the excellent quality writing, it is rare to see a great blog like this one today.. Kanya Elwood Rhyner

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 15, 2021 at 3:31 pm

    An intriguing discussion is definitely worth comment. I do think that you should publish more on this topic, it may not be a taboo matter but usually people do not speak about these subjects. To the next! Many thanks!! Arden Bertie Daniele

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 15, 2021 at 4:58 pm

    Please let me know if you have any kind of recommendationsor tips for brand new aspiring bloggers. Thankyou! Asia Alvis Kolb

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 15, 2021 at 6:55 pm

    This is such an interesting message. I have been searching for out more concerning this topic and falling short. Give thanks to benefits I decided to browse again and also found you. Congratulations on a fantastic article and I will be reading more. Lorilyn Garold Touber

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 15, 2021 at 7:43 pm

    I was waiting for good bullet points on why you are voting for Biden. Doll Elvin Maible

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 15, 2021 at 8:22 pm

    Very informative article. Much thanks again. Fantastic. Fleur Rowan Cerallua

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 16, 2021 at 2:37 pm

    Currently it sounds like BlogEngine is the best blogging platform out there right now. Elise Fidole Feltie

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 16, 2021 at 3:01 pm

    I likke the helpful info you provide in your articles. Sibyl Jess Laundes Gill Kristopher Dunham

    Reply
  • turkce
    February 16, 2021 at 6:16 pm

    Remarkable! Its actually amazing article, I have got much clear idea about from this paragraph. Sukey Gard Ermina

    Reply
  • 샌즈카지노
    February 17, 2021 at 12:27 pm

    Hello. remarkable job. I did not anticipate this. This is a remarkable story. Thanks! Randi Vail Decato

    Reply

Leave a Reply